Cheapness to Avoid Giving

People, mostly women, who avoid giving of themselves in whatever way is being asked of them are always there.  One woman I know just yesterday pulled the stunt.  Pot Luck coming up and the hostess is doing salmon & rice, so this woman offers to make another rice.  We needed appies, and salads, and veggies and desserts.  But no she just offers rice even when she was told we had one of those.  She is trying to save all of her money for herself.  She avoids spending on her friends. Cheap is her language her backup excuse.  How sad - how very sad.   And there are so many others like this.